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Comparison and Analyzation of Orthodox Greek and Japanese Mahayana Buddhist Death Rituals

Compare:  Both cultures find that prayer and the afterlife are important to their ceremonies.  They allow loved ones to view the body and pay their respects to the deceased. They also carry out a period of mourning for over a month (30 days).

Contrast:  Buddhists do not believe in a need to keep the body intact and they cremate the deceased whereas an Orthodox Greek does not believe in mutilating the body in any manner.  Also Buddhists require a financial fee to be paid to the family, Orthodox Greeks do not require any payment from attendees.

What does this tell me? Analyzation:
For the Mahayana Buddhist Funeral Ceremony that religion and the practices associated with religion are normal parts of the culture.  The culture values the spirit or soul of the deceased one and not their body as they burn the bodies of their dead.  The culture also values support from the community as the community assist the family financially.  They value family as well with the family being the ones who must wait at the crematorium for the ashes.  The ceremony gives me insight on Japanese Buddhist beliefs or worldview as well:  they value reincarnation and the idea that the soul lives on even at the end of life in the body they had.  The body is not the important vessel when carrying the soul.

For the Orthodox Greek Funeral Ceremony, religion is another important part of everyday life.  A norm would be to not have the body tainted in any way--considering the view of transplants and organ donations I wonder if they even allow ear piercings and body art.  It is also normal to wear black, and potentially other colors for other ceremonies or events in life, to signify the loss of a loved one.  Another norm includes the consumption of brandy, and the consumption of coffee before and/or after meals as well as the involvement of the congregation in the family's life and business matters.  The culture values the food and drink as they consistently have meals after the death and before the funeral, after the funeral, and after Trisagions.  They value their congregation's involvement in their mourning and they value their bodies.  Their belief or worldview follows the idea that the body must remain intact and the soul must be prepared for eternal life.  They believe in God and that life after death can be great should the soul qualify as a good and righteous.  The family continues to pray for the soul after life in the hopes that their requests for forgiveness will help the soul reach an eternal life of peace and happiness.

Death Ritual: Orthodox Greek

Picture 1, Funeral Services for the Rev. Constantine N. Dombalis at Sts. Constantine and Helen Greek Orthodox Church on Nov. 20, 2012, Accessed 29 April 2014.  http://www.timesdispatch.com/news/latest-news/funeral-services-held-for-longtime-greek-orthodox-leader/article_1a64de02-3343-11e2-b52a-001a4bcf6878.html

Immediately upon the death of an individual, the Trisagion is spoken in the presence of the deceased.  This is a prayer spoken by the priest.  After the funeral, the Trisagion is spoken again at a church or chapel of a funeral home.  Others can see the body during the Trisagion as well.

The Orthodox Greek believes in eternal life and believes that the integrity of the body in addition to the eternal life of the soul are very important.  This means that most Orthodox Greeks do not donate their organs.  Some churches are becoming more open to donating organs but this is not typical.  They also do not believe in cremation--they see it as a failure to keep the body as it is suppose to be upon death.  Small personal items of the deceased's may be placed in the coffin with them.

The church designates 40 days after the death as a period of mourning.  During this time (and beyond) the Trisagion is repeated at important days after the deceased's death:  the third day, ninth day, fortieth day, six months, and one year after the death at church or at the graveside.  During the period of mourning--before and after the funeral--relatives and friends provide the family with food and drinks.  The immediate family wears black during this period of mourning.  They do not participate in entertainment during this time--they do not dance or listen to music or attend social events.  Sometimes, individuals may continue this mourning for a year and widows may continue to wear black for the rest of their lives.

Some Orthodox Greeks prefer Greek funeral homes to prepare the funeral and they prefer the funeral to occur in a church.  Funerals are held on weekdays, rarely on Saturdays, and never on Sundays.  After the ceremony, the attendants bow to the open casket and kiss an object laid on the deceased's chest.  At the graveside, a prayer ceremony occurs where a prayer is said and people may lay a flower on the casket before it is lowered into the grave.

The family usually hosts a wake after the funeral although this is not a traditional part of the religious ceremony.  The meal depends on the families homeland but they always offer guests brandy upon entrance and coffee before and/or after the meal.

Mnimosyno is a memorial service held on the day close to the 40th day of the deceased's death.  At this service, the priests pray for forgiveness of the deceased.  Family sits in the front row and they provide kollyva-boiled wheat with sugar, spices, etc. Kollyva represents eternal life and the soul.  After the service, the family invites the congregation to a meal with them--similar to the wake meal after the funeral.

http://www.greekcare.org.au/advice-and-information/greek-culture-and-tradition/death-and-mourning/

Death Ritual: Mahayana Buddhism in Japan

With the Buddhist religion and culture there are two different types of prevalent Buddhism:  Mahayana and Theravada Buddhism.  The Mahayana Buddhist religion is common in the Japanese Culture.  The Death ritual involves a pre-funeral event called "Otsuya".  This ritual is similar to a wake:  loved ones come and pay their respects with more happy stories than sad ones.

The actual funeral is called "ososhiki".  Funeral attendees first pay a fee to the family before entering t the funeral location.  The funeral entails an altar with the deceased's photograph surrounded by flowers placed in front of the deceased's casket.

Picture 4, Death and Funeral Customs:  Buddhism Post, Funerals and Flowers In Loving Memory Website, Accessed 29 April 2014.  http://www.funerals-and-flowers.com/death-and-funeral-customs.html

Priests chant up until the point when the body is shown to the public for the last time.  This point in the funeral is called "Nobe no Okuri".

After the funeral ceremony, the Japanese Mahayana Buddhists then have the body cremated.  Loved ones wait at the crematorium for the body cremation to be complete.  When the body is returned the family members place the bones in an urn with ceremonial chopsticks and someone who works for the crematorium crushes the bones until they are ash.  The family is then given the ashes and a certificate of cremation.

Although the ceremony lasts for a short period, the Japanese Mahayana Buddhists are not finished.  The 49th day of one's death is an important stage in the Buddhist reincarnation cycle.  The 49th day means that the deceased has made it to their next stage of reincarnation:  they are at their next destination.

http://www.buddhanet.net/d_cermon.htm

Comparison and Analyzation of Marriage Ceremonies

Compared:The Mexican and Chinese marriage ceremonies have some similarities.  They both signify that a new relationship has occurred--they bound two people together.  Both ceremonies do incorporate the parents for something:  the Chinese ceremony includes a Tea Ceremony where the parents are served by the newly wed couple and the Mexican ceremony has the bride and groom dance with their parents at the reception party.  Gifts are also a part of both ceremonies:  at the Chinese Tea Ceremony, the red envelopes filled with jewelry or money is a must.  For the Mexican Ceremony, gifts may be given at the Reception.

Contrast:  There are significant differences between the Traditional Chinese Marriage Ceremony and the Mexican Marriage Ceremony.  The first involves the covering of the bride.  In the Chinese Marriage Ceremony the bride's face is completely covered until it is uncovered in the ceremony.  The guests do not see her face until that point.  For the Mexican Marriage Ceremony, there is no covering of the bride.  She may wear a veil but most of the veils only cover the back of the body and are, now, decorative wedding regalia.  There is also a difference in a respect of the earth, each other, and the parents.  The Chinese Ceremony has the couple bow to the earth, to their parents, and to each other.  Then, the couple must later pour tea and serve their parents and/or family.  The Mexican Ceremony focuses on the couple for respect.  The couple say vows and make promises to each other.  There is not true focus on their parents, the earth, or their families.

Analyzation:  From the Chinese Ceremony, it is easy to understand more about the Chinese Culture.  One can easily deduce that the earth and the heavens are valuable aspects of the Chinese culture--it has been included in a wedding ceremony, AND that bowing is a primal part of showing respect in Chinese culture.  Additionally, the bride has to have her face covered which tells me there may be more restrictions on females depending on their families.  These restrictions would be the product of, most likely, a very patriarchal society.  One can also assume that the culture is very subservient to their elders and family with the bride and groom serving their parents and/or their families.

The Mexican Ceremony tells us that, the Mexican government is not controlled by religion since it requires a civil wedding ceremony to indicate a legal wedding.  The government seems to be pretty strict as well requiring four signatures to prove a couple has been married.  There may be serious requirements and/or restrictions for couples who are married.  By that I mean, maybe there are tax differences for married couples or maybe Mexico has had a serious history of elopement issues and are trying to prevent them.  The religious ceremony indicates that religion is a very true part of the Mexican culture.  The culture also uses symbols rampantly:  they use gold rings to indicate their possession of each other, they use gold coins for a successful income, and they use a rosary to indicate love and their commit together.  The culture also practices a similar ritual to sacrifice where they place a bouquet at the feet of the Virgin de Guadalupe.  Though there is no actual sacrifice this follows along the lines of Greek or Roman sacrifices of possessions to the Greek and/or Roman Gods.  Parties are another important aspect of the culture:  they seem to thrive on a social life and have games throughout their reception.  Music is also important as wedding ceremonies have mariachis play for an hour before the end of the wedding.  Then the newly married couple continues partying with their family before they leave for their honeymoon.

Marriage Ceremonies: Mexican Wedding

For a Mexican wedding, on the big day, the bride has her hair and nails done at a beauty salon before she goes home and has her female family members help her with her dress.  The groom does not need all of these things done--he just has to worry about wearing a tuxedo.

A driver goes to pick up both the groom in the bride in a car that has been decorated on the outside with flowers.  The couple has their picture taken while a video cameraman follows them around from this point on.  The couple has their photos taken by professionals--sometimes they have it at a studio and sometimes they go out into a garden.   The location(s) of the photos depends on the couple's preferences.

Most people are Roman Catholic in Mexico but Mexico will not recognize a religious wedding so the couple must have a civil ceremony.  This civil ceremony can take place before or after the religious one.    Most couples have the civil and religious ceremonies on the same day but this is also depends on the wishes of the couple.

With the civil ceremony a judge talks about marriage and then the couple and the judge will sign a document that proclaims the couple husband and wife.  They need four witnesses to sign the document as well and these witnesses are usually close family and friends.  Not many people need to or ususally do attend this ceremony.

For the religious ceremony that is common in Mexico, the groom arrives first at the church and he awaits the bride at the altar.  The bride enters with a wedding march and with her father walking her down the church aisle.  When the bride reaches the groom the couple walks to the priest together and he says a blessing.  The couple says their vows and the priest asks a series of questions to which the bride and the groom respond "I do".  The couple then exchange rings.  The groom gives thirteen "arras" to the bride.  These are gold coins that symbolize hard work and good administration skills over their income.  Then large rosary beads are placed around their shoulders symbolizing love and unity.  Rosary beads are usually used in prayer and religious practices of Catholics.  They have a certain number of beads and a cross with Jesus on the end of the necklace.  The bride then puts a bouquet of her choosing at feet of Virgin of Guadalupe to thank her and to pray to her for their marriage.  After this the guests are welcome to cheer and congratulate the couple.  The bride sometimes carries two bouquets.

Picture 5, Five Wedding Traditions for Cultural Ideas Post, OneWed Blog, 28 Nov 2011.  Accessed on 29 April 2014.   http://www.onewed.com/cultural/blog/5-more-wedding-traditions-from-around-the-world

Following this ceremony is usually a reception.  Usually, the newly wed couple enters the reception party after the guests have all arrived.  They dance to a song that is considered their song, they dance with their parents, and then they dance among guests.  Food is served at the reception.  The food can vary depending on the couple but there is usually a soup made by cream and vegetables with the main dish being meat, vegetables, and mash potatoes.  The dessert varies and depends on the decisions of the bride and groom  or their family.  In small towns, the meal is usually a pork, chicken, or beef casserole with rice and refried beans.  The wedding cake is served towards the end of the ceremony.
The couple play a variety of games at their ceremony.  The games vary but they are usually to the benefit of the couple.  The bride does usually throw her bouquet for single ladies to catch and the groom tosses the garter he got from the bride to single men.
At the very end of the reception, Mariachis play traditional Mexican music. This is usually an hour long.

After the reception is an after party at the bride's parent's house.  This location can vary but it is usually at this person's house.  This party is only for family.  The family has a good time interacting with each other by talking, laughing, and singing.  At the end of this party the couple says goodbye to their family and they head out on their honeymoon.

A honeymoon is a trip (the location depends on the couple) where the couple are alone together and allowed to bond together.

There can be other elements added to the Mexican wedding depending on different regions acorss Mexico.

Mexican Wedding Traditions
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/10/wedding-traditions_n_1955223.html

Marriage Ceremonies: Traditional Chinese Ceremony

At the wedding ceremony of a traditional Chinese Marriage Ceremony, the bride and groom first bow three times.  The first bow is to heaven and the earth, the second is for their parents, and the third bow is for each other.  Some families have the male shoot three arrows for good luck as well. The highlight of the ceremony occurs as the groom unveils the bride.  This is important because the bride shows her face to the wedding guests for the first time on her wedding day.  Up until this point, her face has remained covered.  The Tea Ceremony follows this Wedding Ceremony.  With the Tea Ceremony, the bride and groom's parents sit down and the bride and groom serve their parents tea.  Sometimes the grandparents, aunts, and uncles are included with the parents and the bride and groom must serve all of these people.  The parents give red envelopes that contain cash and/or jewelry to symbolize their wish for the couple's future happiness.  The Tea Ceremony officiates the new relationship status of the newly wedded couple.  It allows the couple to address their inlaws as mother and father rather than Mr. and Mrs.

Picture 1, File:  Traditional Chinese Wedding Ceremony. Jpg,  19 March 2010.  Accessed 29 April 2014. http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Traditional_Chinese_wedding_ceremony.jpg

http://iml.jou.ufl.edu/projects/fall09/Zhang_x/ceremony.html
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